Masturbation

Masturbation is not something that was discussed within the society as it was known as "impure" thoughts. However in this day and age there is no such thing as "shame" because shameless acts in my opinion like porn is watched and known at such young age. As children are growing up they are watching T.V, MAGAZINES etc that is probably now in every room of every house and what they show is women half naked and what not!...so this will bring such wrong thoughts to an innocent mind. Families do not even realize that what is shown on T.V can affect a child so much that they will act and be like what is shown on T.V for example watching music videos that talk and show SEX, money women etc.




Children will eventually become that and that is the reality of life.
Now how this links to masturbation can be clear because many children now even browse YouTube watch TV programmes that discusses masturbation...its known as normal and something that IS PLEASURE, SELF SOOTING AND EXPLORATION....
Now children will learn very quickly what masturbation is and will try it out as part of the curiosity they have about their bodies
especially when you have the media explaining what it is and giving tips on it just like the example in this video (click link) where a family member is giving tips on masturbation!!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajzp4oWTb4c

In my opinion children should not be giving themselves these pleasures because they are naïve and they should be guarding themselves from such acts as it will help suppress the desires that will lead to.

It is important to stay chaste and have patience because masturbation is something that ruins what is natural. It leads to a certain form of “tolerance.” The tolerance effect simply means that the more you do something the more you will eventually need to do it to achieve the same affect. It becomes an addiction and this will need to become more exciting and can become dangerous. There will be imagined situations of being touched and felt and which leaves with a false sense of comfort in feelings.


http://www.sover.net/~thepcc/AR%20Downloads/Concerns/masterbation.html
http://wikiparenting.parentsconnect.com/wiki/Children
http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/Articles/English/Masterbation_and_Islam.htm
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Islam-947/masterbation.htm
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=6275&CATE=1431