Wednesday 6 May 2009

comment on MUNJU'S BLOG OF BEING BAD!!

THAT COULD HAVE NOT BEING SAID ANY BETTER..AND YOU EVEN GAVE AN EXAMPLE OF WHAT SMOKING DOES TO YOU WHICH IS REALLY HELPFULL AND A LESSON CAN BE LEARNT FROM THIS ...SMOKING DOES RELIVE STRESS BUT THEN AGAIN IT AINT DOING YOUR BODY ANY GOOD IS IT? JUS DRINK RED BULL INSTEAD :D

http://munju09.blogspot.com/2009/03/smoking.html?showComment=1241647500000#c1973295779605260364
comment on MUNJU'S BLOG OF BEING BAD!!


you made some good points there and the main reason why people lie is because they wanna look good infront of people but then again that could be because of peer pressure so that they "fit" in with tha crowd..i agree with yah YOU RIGHT..VERY GOOD !

http://munju09.blogspot.com/2009/03/lying-with-integrity.html?showComment=1241647140000#c7400871920532875174
comment on MUNJU'S BLOG OF BEING BAD!!

nah munju i do not agree with you at all ...robin hood aint no real hero..yes hes intentions were good to help the poor but there could be other ways of helping them not stealing mate :)

http://munju09.blogspot.com/2009/04/bandits.html#comments
comment on Misbah is being bad:


i agree aswel...there is no justifying in killing your own child and going for a abortion..no one should have the right to end another life...there is no reasonable excuse apart from health issues like the womens life being in danger if she has the baby otheriwse like you said there is no excuse in having a abortion

http://missyblog25.blogspot.com/2009/04/abortion.html?showComment=1241646660000#c5851931367251812673
comment on JaSsI:

as you have mentioned that it may not have long lasting affects, it is really about how much the perosn itlsef makes the decision of how much intake they take of alochol.pople need to consider this especially when they are going to drive after having a drink or a couple!!!

http://jassi-xxxxstarxxxx.blogspot.com/2009/05/alcohol.html?showComment=1241646120000#c7421508138577841625
Comment on Jas Uppal:

yea u make sum gud points there jas...the thing is everyone knows smoking is bad and they are aware of the risks but they still continue with it..!

http://jasuppal.blogspot.com/2009/02/smoking.html#comments
Comment on who loves orange soda:

'you have shown a good insight about health problems which occur from smoking'

http://dally-lidhar.blogspot.com/2009/02/smoking-why-do-people-smoke-stress.html#comments
COMMENT ON WHO LOVES ORANGE SODA:

'everyone has choice dal..if they cannot control their desires. they will take such steps that will leave them with no self respect..becuase if they cannot respect that relationship then they are just shameless!'

http://dally-lidhar.blogspot.com/2009/02/infidelity-just-quicky-if-this-was-you.html#comments
COMMENT ON WHO LOVES ORANGE SODA:


'youv'e explained that really well dal..its like paying to kill yourself! its a deadly addiction'

http://dally-lidhar.blogspot.com/2009/03/heroin-users-and-abusers-heroin-also.html#comments


Sunday 3 May 2009

Stalking


stalking can be a term described as unwanted attention by individuals and it can also sometimes be a group of people....

i have watched the film Prom Night which is about a high school teacher obsessed by a teenage student and he does all sorts to get to her like mudering all her family to stay with her. he is then sent to prison and 3 years later on her prom night he escapes and he is lodged in the same floor in the hotel chasing her and stabbing her friends and staff of the hotle that cross his path!!


THAT IS ScArrrrY!!!


imagine that happening in real life to someone...it just can get that worse and therfore it is really bad to stalk someone..


Stalking is where a person is made to feel fear by another perosn who is really not normal but crazy.. they can follow the person to work, cal them numerous times and even be waiting outside the person's home !!


freakyy huh?!


it can lead to fatal and sad circumstances as for instance the film The Prom Night is a example of sad circumstances


i dont agree with stalking someone if it gets dat worse like becoming a loony in tha end!!






Friday 1 May 2009

Pologomy


Polygamy means a system of marriage whereby one person has more than one spouse. Polygamy can be of two types. One is polygyny where a man marries more than one woman, and the other is polyandry, where a woman marries more than one man. it is present in human societies since the very beginning, and was practiced in many parts of the world.

Any man who wishes to take a second wife also has to meet the important condition of fair treatment of all his wives. this includes the requirment to treat wives equally, and anyone who is unable to do so should marry only one wife. Equal treatment includes all social, economical and physical needs. It is very difficult for human beings to be completely fair.


There is some wisdom i belive that why plogomy should be carried out as:


If we restricted men to having only one wife, then there would be many women without husbands. Especially, when a woman is divorced or she becomes a widow, at times it is very difficult for her to remarry. In permitting polygamy, there is a solution to this problem. These women will have someone to look after their social and economic needs.


In Western society, it is common for a man to have mistresses and/or multiple extra-marital affairs, in which case, the woman leads a disgraceful, unprotected life. The same society, however, cannot accept a man having more than one wife, in which women retain their honourable, dignified position in society and lead a protected life.

At times, the woman may not be able to fulfil the physical needs of her husband due too illness. By permitting polygamy, the door of extra-marital affairs is closed.



Sunday 26 April 2009

SHOPLIFTING




IT IS A MASSIVE CRIME...

shoplifting can occur from stealing sweets to clothes!! and it was one of the big crimes becuase it happens everyday

some people get some kinda "BUZZ" from stealing...that is freaky because that is not normal behaviour!?

people have to understand that if you would not like it if anyone stole from you...so do not do it to anyone else....treat everyone else how u wanna be treated..

people can steal from card theft to other frauds

mostly its the big time hustlers who do it so fast and unoticed

being a victim of this crime can make a perosn loose their trust in everyone and feel unsecure...

this is the impact it has on people and it is very sad indeed

shoptlifting is very wrong and it shows that people who commit this crime are in need of help!






Thursday 23 April 2009

RAPE






rape is DISGUSTING IMORAL BEHAVIOUR...THERE IS NO JUSTIFYING TO IT ..HOW CAN SOMEONE POSSIBIY FORCE SOMEONE TO SUBMIT TO A SEXUAL ACTIVITY?!

THIS CAN HAPPEN WITH ALOT OF FORCE AND IT CAN HAPPEN BY GETTING KIDNAPPED, USING THREATS AND OTHER DISGUSTING WAYS..

IT JUST SHOWS THAT THESE PEOPLE WHO COMMIT SUCH ATTROCIOUS ACTIVITY DO NOT HAVE ANY FEELINGS FOR PEOPLE OUT THERE AND I HATE IT!!!

ITS COMMITING A CRIME AND THESE PEOPLE SHOULD BE PUT AWAY FOR COMMITING SUCHA A BIG CRIME!!

Tuesday 21 April 2009

swearing




swearing can become habbit but it is a BAD one...we all do it and thers no hidin in dat...i du have my moments aswel but i do hate swearing..

its a big influence on kids because they catch up on em quick....and when u see a kid swearing u cant really blame them..but the upbringin and the friends etc that makes them. It is true that we can not always avoid swearing in total, there are occasions when even the most mild-mannered person will let go..

but we shud try our best not to..there is a limit to using swear words though because there are such foul words that are disgusting...but over all its bad Bad BAD!!!!


http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Swearing

Monday 20 April 2009

Graffiti







graffiti can come across as negative thing as in such circumstances some grafittti can look offensive and messy which spoils the image of towns...gangs use graffiti to leave their trademark and it can come across as really offensive..



However some graffiti can come across as positive in my opinion as they are a fanastic peice of art work and i love looking at such amazing art which is unique i think.. even though i do agree that you should not damge properties with certain types of graffiti which spoils the image of the town..but some graffitti can bring an awarness and this is a brillaint way as it can raise certain



issues which need to be reminded to every one who walks by...



its also a way to let someone appreciate their art so why not!






Monday 13 April 2009

BULLYING





BULYING OCCURS IN DIFFERENT FORMS LIKE PHYSICAL, EMOTIONAL, RACISM ETC




IT OCCURS ALOT IN SCHOOLS AND ELSE. NAME CALLING AND BEING PUSHED AROUND AND ANY PHYSICAL ABUSE OR INTIMIDATION CAN COME UNDER BEING BULLIED.




MY OPINION IS THAT NOONE AT ALL SHOULD HAVE TO GO THROUGH BULLYING. PEOPLE CAN SEEK HELP BY TALKING TO SOMEONE ABOUT IT BUT IT SHOULD NOT HAPPEN..ITS TOTALLY WRONG..WHY??!!








IT BRINGS DOWN SELF ESTEEM, PEOPLE CAN EVEN COMMIT SUICIDE AND RECIEVE THREATS OF VILONCE WHICH DOES NOT LET THEM LIVE EASY...THEY LIVE A LIFE OF FEAR AND THAT IS SUCHA HORRIBLE FEELING..I WOULD HATE TO LIVE MY LIFE LIKE THAT..SO WHY SHOULD ANYONE LIVE LIKE THAT!








TREAT EVERYONE THE WAY YOU WANNA BE TREATED!!!!!!!!!


Sunday 12 April 2009

GAMBLING


gambling in my opinion depends on how much the person undertakes..becuase they kno the circumstances that it can end them in..it is an addiction just like alcohol and drugs...u choose that path..but people who become so attached to gambling are most likely to be caught in circumstances where they eventually become bankrupt!

it can lead to fatal circumstances because it is a serious situation when there is exessive gambling...

yes people go on the lottery weekly and etc...but it can leave people in debts and loosing out on so much money....

i have never gambled or neither will i...

i think its a waste of money..yes people have been lucky but not everyone has..i would never risk anything on such things i rather just give that money to charity..






Saturday 11 April 2009

Football Hooliganism


this Behaviour refres to destructive behaviour such as vandalism, brawls and unruly behavior carried out by football supporters..they surround the streets and form a gang which is also known as hooligan firm...

THESE FIGHTS GOWAN AS THEY ARE LINKD TO RACISM OR POLITICS

THE USE KNIVES, BATS, ROCKS, GUNS AND VIOLENT ACTION TOWARDS THE OPPOSING TEAM AND HAVE A CLASH WITH THEM...IS THIS APPROPIATE BEHAVIOUR? THIS IS ATTROCIOUS BEHAVIOUR..THERE IS SO NEED FOR IT...PEOPLE TODAY ARE FIGHTING OVER A GAME OF FOOTBALL...THEY DO NOT EVEN ACHIEVE ANYTHING FROM IT JUS MORE HATRED AND MORE VIOLENCE..


TOTALLY ABSURD BEHAVIOUR!!!



PEOPLE HAVE BEEN KILLED DURING THESE

CLASHES WITH THE OPPOSING TEAM!!



Monday 6 April 2009

Drink Driving



drinking whilst being drunk is jus totally IRRESPONSIBLE!! and so DANGEROUS!!



THERE IS A DANGER TO EVERYONE IN THE CAR.. HTIS INCLUDES THE CAR DRIVER AND THE PASSENGERS..


DRINK DRIVING CAN TAKE A LIFE AWAY ON THA ROAD IF THERE IS CARELESS DRIVING..BECAUSE HIGH LIKELY THE DRIVER DRIVING WILL NOT EVEN BE IN THE RIGHT SENSES...


PEOPLE MAY EVEN THINK THAT IT IS OK TO DRINK A LITTLE BIT OF ALCHOL BUT THEY SHOULD AVOID IT AT ALL TIMES ESPECIALLY IF THEIR GONNA BE DRIVING.. IT ..


EVERY LIFE IS PRECIOUS SO DRINK DRIVING IS BAD BAD BAD ...


A SMALL MISTAKE WHILE DRIVING IN THESE CONDITIONS CAN LEAD TO FATAL CONSEQUENCES SUCH AS RUNNING OVER SOMEONE...A KID..A MOTHER..OR A FATHER..THEY CAN END UP BEING PARALIZED FOR LIFE..MEANING NOT BEING ABLE TO MOVE AL THEIR LIFE AND BEING DEPENDENT ON SOMEONE ELSE TO FEED THEM AND LOOK AFTER THEMSELVES..

Sunday 5 April 2009

Abortion


Abortion in my opinion should not be permissible under any normal health conditions. because every life is precious
many women come across having abortions for reasons such as:



"it was a mistake"



"im not ready for a baby"



"it was a one night stand

"
AND WAT NOT
BUT THAT IS NO XCUSE...ITS MURDAH!
WHAT IF YOUR MOTHER GAVE UP ON YOU..WITHOUT A REASONABLE XCUSE?!

u cannot justify abortions that are undertaken because of a mistake and whatvever xcuse lined up


HOWEVER IT IS UNDERSTANDABLE IF THERE IS A RISK TO THE MOTHERS HEALTH IS SHE HAS THE BABY...IN THEM CIRCUMSTANCES IT IS OKK..BECAUSE IT'S NOT ANYONES FAULT THERE?!

Saturday 4 April 2009

Drugz!


Drugs are NOT the only issue relating to crime, BUT because of the nature of addiction, drugs can do more to destroy the moral will and the social fabric of the EVERYcommunity than any other type of crime. It appears that drug use among youth matches national levels: we have no more 'moral immunity’ from drugs than anyone else.



It is well known that the use of such drugs affects the sensory perceptions, making what is near seem distant and what is distant seem near; that their use produces illusions and hallucinations, so that the real seems to disappear and what is imaginary appears to be real; and that taking drugs in general impairs the faculty of reasoning and decision-making



Added to this psychological fact are the physical effects: bodily lassitude, dullness of the nerves, and decline in overall health. The moral consequences, moral insensitivity, weakening of the will power, and neglect of responsibilities are also well known. Eventually, drug addiction weakens a person and makes him a diseased member of society. Furthermore, drug addiction may result in the destruction of the family or even drive one to a life of crime. Since obtaining drugs involves a great outlay of money, drug addiction may take its toll on the family budget and even it may tempt the drug addict to resort to illegal means to pay for drugs.



http://www.bbc.co.uk/schools/gcsebitesize/rs/sanctity/isdrugsrev1.shtml


http://www.bbc.co.uk/schools/gcsebitesize/rs/sanctity/isdrugsrev1.shtml


http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=1&ID=3264&CATE=13

Friday 3 April 2009

Bandits


Bandits and outlaws are usually people who are on the run indefinitely and commit crime after crime without getting caught. Sometimes they are said to be standing up for the little guy too. Lets take Robin Hood for example. He stole from the rich to give to the poor. Now I never really think of Robin Hood as a bandit or outlaw because he is such a well know figure today, but he was. Everyone knows who Robin Hood is though and he is thought of as the good guy.However I think people like Robin Hood, who did bad things for good reasons, do have a danger of glamorising criminal behaviour. I guess it depends how bad the thing is that the person is doing to help the poor. Stealing is very different from killing for example. Villains become heroes when they do something the public approve of. This shows it is possible for a bad guy to be a good guy if he has the right intentions.

http://wiki.answers.com/Q/What_are_bandits_characteristics

Sunday 29 March 2009

BAD CINEMA


Many children may find this movie "cool", which worries me slightly as that's not what it is intended to leave you feeling. i thought it was a fantastic, but horrifying, film.
it shows u all about the youth of the kids in the NY, but all that you see in that movie applys over here too its what real kids do and that's the truth theres sex, drugs, mischief pretty much I think it gives its viewers a better perspective on the youth today but not all kids are like that.


it does deliver some very strong underlying messages.


I think this is the only film that takes a true look at teenagers today. Its so true and hope other teenagers see it so they no what they'll most probably end up like if you hang around with the wrong ppl

http://www.filmsite.org/childrensfilms.html
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Kids_(film)
http://www.channel4.com/film/reviews/film.jsp?id=104955

Tattoos!!





HAVING A TATTOO GOOD THING OR BAD??



some have them done to look good, some do it to feel better, some even do it in the memory of a loved one and some jus love em!


an example of this would be on the show Miami Ink, which is about the art of tattoo and it does provide the positive side of tattooing because various people come with a story behind their tattooing.
In the first episode viewers are shown a tattoo in the memory of a deceased
brother...some tattoos can look cool aswel like this example of lil wayne who is a rap artist..hes well known across many young people and looking at this they would see it as cool








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...BUT SOME ARE JUST TO EXTREME MAN!! LIKE EYE TATTOOS..I WOULD NEVA LET A NEEDLE TOUCH ANYWER NEAR MY EYE!

















the only down fall of getting tattos on to ya body is when yu do it for a loved one...but then u brake up!! OUCH!! WAT A WASTE!!



My closing thoughts are just this, please be sure what you are getting into before trying something bizarre because these are not areas where you want buyer’s remorse since you can’t take these back. No laser removal for this. When in doubt, don’t do it!






Saturday 21 March 2009

Lying With Integrity


















TRUTH HURTS!!!

we eithier deny it or not, but lying is part of every human relationships. People lie for various reasons. This could be to make themselves look good or feel better. Others may lie to stop conflicts and so there are many aspects that lie under lies!!
However it can be damaging to relationships when a lie is exposed which undermines trust and it grows seed of doubt, as ONCE A LIAR ALWAYS A LIAR!!



Lying is a despicable vice in our socities today as decieving others with the use of words is seen as clever for e.g. the Goverment lies. Everyone does it to save their ass and to have a good image in society. Therefore todays lies have become part of our lives because the reality of today so far is that we have to live with it..it is like not being in control with the Goverment in power.. we are their slaves and they carry on doing wrong and lie blaitently


Wars, Invasion of countries are all based in lies it is like everyone wants to look pious but they carry the tag





"We” never lie, we just bend the truth a little, put a spin, having no intention to mislead, but the “others” are liars. "




"Gonna am them days where everyone spoke the truth, when a lie destroyed the liar's dignity and deprived him outta trust" - TAZ (2009)


In Islam lying is considered very dangerous as the Holy book of Islam, The Qur'an teaches
“And do not say that of which you have no knowledge.” (Quran 17:36)

Even in Christianity it is seen as WRONG

A lie is an abomination unto the Lord, and a very present help in trouble. (a combination of Proverbs 12:22 and Psalms 46:1)


The malice of lying is tied to hypocrisy as described by the Prophet Muhammad,
“If anyone has four characteristics, he is a pure hypocrite, and if anyone has one of them, he has an aspect of hypocrisy until he gives it up: whenever he is trusted, he betrays his trust; whenever he speaks, he lies; when he makes an agreement, he breaks it; and when he quarrels, he deviates from the truth by speaking falsely.”

The Prophet’s teaching is that we try our best to free ourselves of hypocrisy by keeping our trusts, telling the truth, keeping our promises, and not speaking falsely. Therfore we should be careful not to make false excuses like ‘I was too busy or I forgot,’ or say words that can be taken as promises by others like ‘I’ll call back tomorrow,’ with no such intention. At the same time, not lying should not be confused with impoliteness, ‘saying at it is,’ but we should be careful not to lie about little things when no one apparently gets hurt. This can be done by carefully choosing our words.

ITS BEST TO AVOID LYING AS POSSIBLE BECAUSE
ONE LIE LEADS TO ANOTHER LIE!!!!!











Sunday 8 March 2009

Masturbation

Masturbation is not something that was discussed within the society as it was known as "impure" thoughts. However in this day and age there is no such thing as "shame" because shameless acts in my opinion like porn is watched and known at such young age. As children are growing up they are watching T.V, MAGAZINES etc that is probably now in every room of every house and what they show is women half naked and what not!...so this will bring such wrong thoughts to an innocent mind. Families do not even realize that what is shown on T.V can affect a child so much that they will act and be like what is shown on T.V for example watching music videos that talk and show SEX, money women etc.




Children will eventually become that and that is the reality of life.
Now how this links to masturbation can be clear because many children now even browse YouTube watch TV programmes that discusses masturbation...its known as normal and something that IS PLEASURE, SELF SOOTING AND EXPLORATION....
Now children will learn very quickly what masturbation is and will try it out as part of the curiosity they have about their bodies

especially when you have the media explaining what it is and giving tips on it just like the example in this video (click link) where a family member is giving tips on masturbation!!!


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ajzp4oWTb4c

In my opinion children should not be giving themselves these pleasures because they are naïve and they should be guarding themselves from such acts as it will help suppress the desires that will lead to.

It is important to stay chaste and have patience because masturbation is something that ruins what is natural. It leads to a certain form of “tolerance.” The tolerance effect simply means that the more you do something the more you will eventually need to do it to achieve the same affect. It becomes an addiction and this will need to become more exciting and can become dangerous. There will be imagined situations of being touched and felt and which leaves with a false sense of comfort in feelings.



http://www.sover.net/~thepcc/AR%20Downloads/Concerns/masterbation.html
http://wikiparenting.parentsconnect.com/wiki/Children
http://www.islamicacademy.org/html/Articles/English/Masterbation_and_Islam.htm
http://en.allexperts.com/q/Islam-947/masterbation.htm
http://qa.sunnipath.com/issue_view.asp?HD=7&ID=6275&CATE=1431

Saturday 28 February 2009

Infidelity



Infedility is going against the boundaries of a relationship..whether it is marriage or not.
my belief as a Muslim is that commiting adultery or having any illict relationship is absoloutely WRONG...why?

because in Islam it is not accepted under any circumstances because Allah The Most High. gives us clear guidance by which to live. It is on us if we choose to disregard His instructions. Allah Most High is aware of all that happens and so choosing to follow a path where you lie to your partner who has so much trust in you..especially whenever you are in their presence, they think that you love them..but your lying continuously..










it just shows that these illicit relationships are signs that partner is not sincere to anyone not even family!!! and i hate liars!


it would be a very disturbing situation if my partner cheated on me. so i could not even think of doing that if i was in a relationship! Yes there are couples who do manage to forgive infidelity and repair their relationship, but then things are never quite the same. Their love and commitment to each other and the relationship prevails.

SO WHY DO IT IN THE FIRST PLACE?!!


BECAUSE some cannot control their desires...its a MUST HAVE...it all resolves around lust and uncontrolable desires...some see it as just normal and a laugh..THEY HAVE NO MORALS in my opinion..how could u possibly ruin someones life who loves you so much..JUST FOR LUST or even attention they recive which leads to one thing to another?!









For example, people often wonder...
Is my husband just being flirtatious or could he be tempted to cheat?
When I ask my wife a question, why doesn't she look me in the eye?
How come my girlfriend doesn't answer her phone?
Why is my partner working so late?
What's causing my boyfriend be so distant lately?


THERE IS NO EXPLANATION FOR EVERYTING BUT EVERY RELATIONSHIP WORKS WITH LOVE AND TRUST..IF THERE IS NO TRUST...WORK IT OUT AND TALK TO EACHOTHER WITHOUT ANY FORM OF SUSPICION!



I REST MA CASE


Tuesday 24 February 2009

Smoking


smoking causes damage to your health such as lung cancer and heart disease and we are all aware of this but the majority still do it especially teenagers and the question is why?!


Peer pressure plays an important part. Many children start smoking because their friends have tried it or smoke themselves! It makes them feel part of the crowd and take away their low -self esteem.

http://smoking.ygoy.com/2007/10/06/why-do-teenagers-smoke/

Thursday 12 February 2009